Dear Reader,
As we have said in previous posts, we decided to take a week and focus on emotions and feelings with our kiddos this week. This is easier said and done when said kiddos are still super little. While thinking about what toddlers need as far as emotions, I realized that what toddlers need fairly regularly is redirection and distraction when things just aren’t going their way.
I’ve had these for a while, but I decided to pull them down and see how my toddlers responded to them. Of course, they love them, and they are a great diversion. I usually just pick them up while I clean the house and set them out of reach but somewhere central and easy to access when babies just need a distraction.
Although they’re kind of heavy for littles, they can roll and shake them and that is enough for their little attention spans.
There are multiple recipes all over the internet and I highly encourage you to play around with the exact proportions because it is nice having multiple jars that “calm down” at different intervals. My dark, “galaxy” themed one takes the longest to get all settled, and my patriotic jar goes the quickest. But you can see the trinkets in the patriotic one better, making it ideal for toddlers.
Also, I used clear glue for my patriotic bottle and regular white glue in my winter hearts bottle, and it has totally different vibe, so don’t count out the regular white glue! It makes the hearts kind of appear and disappear.
… okay, I can’t really take credit. My mom made the winter one, but I added the teal because she had it in a cute little bottle and it broke 🙁 But when I put it in the smart water bottles (seriously perfect for this project), it just looked so blah, so I added the teal (that was the color of the bottle she had it in, so it didn’t change the feel of it, really). Actually, she made it and my kids loved it so much that I made the other 2. They worked really well while I was watching my brother’s kids. I intended to make a bunch and keep experimenting but 3 seems to be a good amount and I’m not constantly picking them up if there is only 3. Maybe when my toddlers get old enough that these are “old news,” I will make the others.
So, to make a calm down jar (I know, finally, a recipe… but I wanted it at the end because these aren’t rules, they’re “guidelines”), you will need:
- a clear bottle (Smart water bottles are seriously great, but as long as it’s mostly solid and will hold up well, it doesn’t really matter. We have some distilled water bottles from a local grocery store that I think will work well and they’re not so huge.
- glue. Best choice by far is clear glitter glue, but there is flexibility here.
- water. HoT water!
- Glitter (yes, more glitter).
- Little sequin and trinkets to go in the jar. My patriotic one actually has little beads I had been saving just because they were cute, so this was a good use for them!
- Food coloring
I’ve found for me, personally, the sweet spot is about 1 part glue and 2 parts water. And then as much glitter as you want. I personally like lots of glitter, but I have 3 different variations and they all have obviously different amounts of glitter. Just know, you want hot water so the glue mixes in!
FYI it is really hard to get a picture of all 3 at their prettiest! Which is your favorite jar? What would you put in a jar? Let me know!
