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Coins in a jar

Dear Reader,

I confess that the idea for this activity really came spur of the moment. I’d been keeping these coins as a prize system for a certain stubborn preschooler who needed a little motivation to go potty, and we had finally gotten past the need for a reward system (translation: Mommy is over rewarding something that should be standard procedure by now), so the jar was just sitting on the shelf, waiting for me to come up with a different need for plastic tokens. When I walked past it today while cleaning my house, I thought, eh, “I’ll let the toddlers play with these.If I’m watching them (the coins are easily inserted in mouths while backs are turned), I bet they’ll have fun!

It was definitely more of a hit than I anticipated. I ended up sitting and watching them play with these coins for easily 20 minutes, but probably close to a half an hour!

They even took turns reaching into the jar! Bonus skill! I guess I could say I planned that, I mean the jar is only big enough for 1 little hand to fit inside, and there were about 12 coins total so enough for them to still have something to do and hold while the other is putting coins in or pulling them out. I totally didn’t though. Maybe they did so well at taking turns because it was right as they woke up from a nap. Either way, I was kind of impressed and in awe at how well and how long they played with something so basic as plastic coins in a half-pint jar. I guess it just emphasizes the fact that play can happen with just about anything. No need to spend big green or hours of time. Once you start looking for ways to spark intentional learning experiences for your kids, the whole world takes on a new unexpected light.

I will definitely say that has been my favorite part of this activity challenge: anticipating the joy of a toddler, intentionally playing with or introducing something new to your children, embracing little moments – all of this has made me start looking at even simple things things with a new light.

Keira at searchforseven.com
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Make Gelatin

Dear reader

My kiddo has been begging me for jell-o lately! I decided when she did this last time that it’d be a great activity for her and I to do together. I mean, what kid doesn’t love using a whisk and watching water change colors? I know, I know; it’s super basic, but she really loved it. And when dinnertime came she was proud that she contributed.

I am trying to decide if I feel like she’s ready for making cookies. whisking a liquid is way easier than whisking cookie batter. I think for now, we might just stick with Jell-O.

P.S. this stuff is actually Sonic Ocean Water gelatin! I loved it, and I wish I had it in candle form (or Scentsy, let’s be real. Open flame is not a good idea at my house). ***No affiliate link, no reward for linking to it; just thought it was a nice change from the blue raspberry name-brand stuff.

Keira at searchforseven.com
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Melting Ice

Dear Readers

My kids love watching Ice melt. I think it would be rather boring, but they are constantly asking to have some ice to melt. Sure they don’t always stay in one place while it melts, but they love to play with the ice by setting it out on the hot pavement.

This activity is a sensory science experiment. Toddlers are called little scientists because they are constantly experimenting on their environment to learn how things work.

While simple, you can talk with them about how the ice goes from a solid to a liquid. This is something they can witness for themselves.

The great thing is that all you have to have is ice. Little to no preparation is involved, and it entertains them from anywhere between 5-20 min.

Summer at searchforseven.com
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Slime

Dear Readers,

Today I tried to do slime with my preschoolers. I say tried, but the stuff I used didn’t work as well as I would have liked. I added more after a little while trying to see if I could get it to set a little firmer so the slime would be less sticky and it worked.

I feel like the slime mix I used was a little disappointing, and took forever to get right. I finally got it right, but in the process I also got slime everywhere because I wasn’t able to watch my kids as closely as I would have liked when they were playing with it.

I do want to try a better recipe next time, and not try the fast shortcut method offered by the one solution I bought at Walmart. The girls did have fun with it though, despite it being so sticky.

I suggest you either submit to the fact that there is going to be a mess if you make slime, or make it beforehand. The kids will pester you to help, which I ignored at first, but then let them play with the slime I thought I had finished (it needed more solution so it stuck to them way too much.).

In all it was a good sensory activity, and maybe when they are older I will make it again and let them help me make it. Next time though I will not use the cheap glue and the “quick” solution.

Summer at searchforseven.com
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Tape pulling

Dear reader

I saw this idea on Pinterest and I really wanted to buy some colored tape! I know, it’s a total splurge, especially when the whole point is to let babies play with it, but I could just see them having so much fun with it! I mean it definitely needed some tweaking and it definitely needed supervision to prevent tape getting wrapped around necks, but masking tape tears easily so I wasn’t that worried.

So I found some on Amazon (no, I’m not an affiliate, I ordered this at full price, I liked it, and I’m passing that info on) and I couldn’t wait to find a way to use it! I don’t know why I’m so much in love, it’s just tape. But colors make me happy.

Knowing I don’t have a radiator to put it on like in the picture, I searched my house for a safe place to put it. I didn’t want to risk losing paint on any walls or furniture, and my house is in a constant state of construction (for wayyyyyyy too long!) So I decided I’d use my vinyl deck rails. If you want to do this activity I highly suggest you consider the best place. I’m sure you can find some place in your house, but with the last warm days looming over us, the deck had an extra pull, anyway.

I remembered how chaotic it was when I set up the spider web so I definitely waited until naptime to set this up, and of course I put it in rainbow order. Not only because it’s so visually pleasing but because it makes a hidden learning experience. Especially when I got my preschooler involved!

This activity kept them entertained for a surprisingly long time! They’d run off for a second or two and then come back and rip off another patch of another color. And when they’d get a whole strip, they’d play with that strip, on their hands, on their shirts, or even just getting it stuck to their feet.

I would definitely call the activity a win! And now I have a lot more tape in fun colors to do it again! I’ve got cubbies in my front room that I think would be a good indoor place to play. Or even the fridge. I’m sure there’s a lot of ways we can adapt this activity. If you do it, please send me some pics!

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Make dandilion wishes

Dear reader

Fall is supposed to hit us like a slap in the face tomorrow, so we’re outside battening down the hatches and enjoying the warm day before it gets crazy cold in an unfair end of summer stint. I am not ready for cold.

One of my daughter’s absolute favorite things about outside are dandilions. She loves that they’re yellow, she loves that mom doesn’t get mad when she picks them (picking them is encouraged actually) and she loves that they are fun to blow on. I know some people hate them with a passion but they’re actually so good for nature that I never bother fighting them. Granted, my neighbors are all farmers so if they’re bothered by them then they’re spraying for them anyway. In fact, one neighbor has a huge beehive on his property so they’re actually encouraged (bees love dandilions)! I don’t have to feel guilty for leaving them in my yard for my daughter to enjoy.

These might be the last of the season so we enjoyed the moment. She picked them and we talked about making wishes (her new favorite concept, actually, though I don’t think she really understood how it tied to her flowers) and she blew them away!

I love that she finds so much joy in something so simple. What are your thoughts? Do you love them or hate them? Feel free to let us know in the comments.

Kids Need Play

Doesn’t Belong

Dear Reader

Have you ever heard the song “One of these things is not like the other’s, One of these things just doesn’t belong.”? That is what inspired this game. The great thing is that your kids will love it and you are able to sneak in some learning with it.

Being able to sort out the things that match and don’t match is a beginning math concept. I was surprised how well my preschooler was able to grasp this concept.

She could see that something was different between most of the options that I gave her, until I started venturing into the not so obvious differences. She could see that the cars were different than the little people angel, but struggled to grasp that the soft toys were different than the hard toys (this may have been my fault for using a stuffed horse and a plastic horse with the teddy bears).

My preschooler loved this game, and I got bored of it way before she did. She kept coming up to me through out the day asking to play again.

There are a lot of paper worksheets that have this activity for a child to do, but I figured, why not use what I have around the house? There are so many more options than the pictures give you. You could do colors, shapes, textures, taste.

In the end, I did enjoy doing it. I just suggest you have a lot of options gathered so you can just sit and play with your child. If you don’t you may end up running back in forth because they figured out all your choices in the first 5 seconds.

Summer at searchforseven.com

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Stacking Cans

Dear Reader

One of my kids favorite things to do is to play with the cans in my cupboard. They are constantly taking them out and stacking them. The great thing about this is that I don’t have to watch too closely while they play with them.

This is a game that even the youngest toddler can play. At a young age they may only be able to stack one on top of another reaching 2 cans high, but it is great practice.

My 11 month old was having a blast playing with the cans. I was surprised at how well he was doing.

All you need is cans and your kids will do the rest. Just be aware that your cans may end up dented, or missing labels. The younger ones won’t be able to stack very high, so you don’t need to worry about it falling on their heads.

This kept them busy for at least 20 min. So if you need to keep them busy while you get something done this is a great option.

Summer at searchforseven.com

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Paper plate lion

Dear Reader,

My daughter has really been struggling with scissor skills. It fits right in with all the fine motor stuff she’s been working on in OT. The fact is that if given the choice between big movements and small, this girly will choose big. And it goes further than movements. I’ve got an active, grand-movement-only type child. Nothing should be small in her mind. So slowing down and working on stuff she has to concentrate on is a major task for her. That’s why I looked up a list of scissor skills and made up scissor-cutting worksheets, and I’m working on a series of activities to use them.

From my fairly thorough internet research, scissor skills development includes:

  1. snipping at the paper (cutting off small chunks)
  2. cutting fringe (think the bottom of take a number papers. Or this activity)
  3. cutting straight lines all the way through a paper
  4. cutting zigzag lines all the way through a paper
  5. cutting out shapes and objects
  6. cutting out wavy lines

Please don’t count me an expert. An internet search doesn’t equal an OT degree. But I at least know we can work on those skills! So, I got to work creating the pages, and then we worked on making crafts with them. Today’s craft, as seen above, is a lion face. I made one with my daughter (you can see the difference in the skill level… at least I hope, haha), gave here a Styrofoam plate and a dry erase marker (I am sure it works just as well – if not better with a paper plate and washable markers, but we went with what we had) and showed her my example and she drew her own lion face. As mentioned above, she’s not big on small movements, so coloring is not her favorite thing. I think coloring on a different object than paper, and with a different medium, made it entertaining enough, but there is definitely a strong scribble game going on. And then, on to the part she wanted to do: Cutting the fringe mane.

After I cut the strips and she cut the fringe, I showed her how to curl the fringe. She had no patience for it, so we kinda did a few and then left it. Then, on to gluing. I found it easiest to glue the strips myself with liquid glue so that they got a little soggy and pliable before I handed them to her and had her put them around the plate. you need to curve/fold/bend them. obviously, because you’re working with a square paper and wrapping it around a round plate. Praise getting it on the plate because it’s harder than it sounds for preschoolers. Honestly, it was a challenge for me as an adult, so of course it’d be hard for preschoolers.

As far as skills, I’m pretty impressed. I mean I know it’s not “hey look at my super talented kid and what she can do.” but it was fun. And real. And she did pretty well for her relatively first craft. And I’m gonna do other similar projects because we need more scissor practice.

Keira at searchforseven.com
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Tent play

Dear Reader,

The nice thing about toddlers is that when they’re little, everything is an adventure. Including busting out a camping tool! we bought this little tent when my preschooler was little so we could go camping without worrying that our adventurous girl would wander off while we were all sleeping. It also came in handy on trips. And now, it makes a great play tent for a couple of adventurous little toddlers! As long as it stays fun, it’s useful, eh? Just don’t make it feel like they’re stuck there, because that totally changes the mood. It’s not fun if they feel like it’s not their choice. Grown ups are the same way.

Actually I was digging through the camping stuff when I found it and decided it would be fun. And the truth is, the preschooler still enjoys playing in it too, so it couldn’t have been that bad of a purchase.

If you want to check it out, you can still find it on amazon here. I am not an affiliate, so clicking on any links will give me a whole lotta nada. But that shouldn’t change your opinion. Do your own digging. And if you don’t wanna buy anything but still want to play with your toddler, it absolutely would work to just throw blankets onto a chair or something. Especially if you crawl under and play, which is kinda the point. Read a book, throw a few toys in, let toddlers learn through play – and you can’t go wrong.

Keira at searchforseven.com