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Painter’s Tape Spiderweb

Dear Reader

I confess, I totally stole this idea from Pinterest; and I confess, that as most things stolen from Pinterest, it didn’t go as planned. I saw the idea for sticking toys to painter’s tape and making a toy web and I thought, “oh! this should be fun.” What I didn’t account for is that I should have done it during naptime, because I barely got it set up before the toddlers had to get involved. I think I will do this activity again but I will take my own advice and set it up during naptime. If I do it again, I’ll update!

I had my preschooler fetch toys to stick to the web (she loved that!). Finding just the right toys is harder than you’d think. Painter’s tape isn’t really all that strong, so it doesn’t hold a lot of weight. And I didn’t want anything furry/fabricky because I was worried about how well they’d stick (although as I think about it after the fact, they’d probably have been fine). Fisher Price Little People are a great option, if you have any. They’re hollow and small, easy to grab with little fingers, and stick well to the painter’s tape. The preschooler actually grabbed an eclectic variety, but what did I care?

the “game” lasted all of 5 minutes in reality, but had I had time to set it up better (aka, not been bombarded with toddlers), I think it would definitely last longer. And they did come back over and over, to get more tape off of more toys. One toddler enjoyed crawling under the tape (ironically, she’s the one eager to walk more, and almost runs), and the other enjoyed freeing the toys and would sit and pull the tape off each one.

It was pretty fun, even though it was quick. And watching them try to get the tape off was pretty entertaining. And now I have a whole roll of painter’s tape (I know we have some somewhere, but I couldn’t find it when I went looking, and it cost me all of a dollar ninety-eight to go buy a roll) to do it again. But this time I’m setting it up during naptime!

Keira at searchforseven.com
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Field Trip! We went berry picking

Dear Reader,

When we decided to come up with one purposeful activity per day with our preschoolers, it caused me to look at daily tasks in a whole new light. Suddenly, berry picking isn’t just a task to be done, it’s a chance to teach my preschooler a new skill; and instead of approaching it as a chore, it’s a time to spend in the wonder that is the preschooler mind.

When my friend invited me to come pick berries with her, I used that new paradigm and got excited about the chance to take my preschooler. Not only is it outside (her favorite place in the whole world), and involving food (she actually did pretty well at not eating all of the berries she picked. But toward the end, she did eat quite a bit and shared the wealth with her little sisters), but its also a chance to step out of our normal routine. And, as I said before, it’s a chance to teach a life skill to a preschooler. She caught on pretty quickly as to which berries to pick, reaching for less and less unripe berries as we went.

I think she had a pretty fun time! And I am a firm believer in the happy chemical boosts involved in working together. Not to mention the boost in Vitamin D by being outside in the sunlight.

I mean, I guess I should have been worried that my wild child would have ravaged my friend’s patch, but I decided that a little trust an expectation would go a long way. And it worked. She didn’t get bored before her sisters were just plain done. She actually worked really hard! and when she didn’t work, she thoroughly enjoyed herself talking the ears off of a new audience. And then there were butterflies, and that was fascinating. All in all, I’m soooo happy we went. If you’re ever on the fence as to whether your kid would be a benefit or a hindrance to the work that needs done, take them! Even if they’re a hindrance, they’re learning work ethic! They’re learning that the task can be fun. They’re watching you and learning life skills. And it might just go better than you fear.

Keira at searchforseven.com
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Rice Trace

Dear Reader,

Kids love sensory activities, and today our rice trace was a winner. All the kids wanted to join in, so it made quite a mess. It may have been better had I had a tray for each child though.

This activity is one that was suggested by my child’s therapist and teachers. It helps them get a tactile feel for what they are learning, say letters or shapes.

All you need for this activity is rice (or sugar, or some other substance) and a tray. I used a small cookie tray I had, but you could use a bigger one or something similar.

Place your rice in the tray and spread it out evenly. Help your child learn the shape you want them to trace, then let them start tracing.

As I said earlier the kids loved it, but be prepared for a mess. They weren’t very good at keeping all the rice in the tray.

Summer at searchforseven.com
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Bubble Snake

Dear Reader,

Today we made Bubble Snakes. My kids have always loved bubbles. I think most kids do. Most kids seem to be fascinated with them from an early age, which is why this is a good activity for all toddlers and older.

My youngest toddler did not get to experience this yet, but to be fair he is only just in the toddler stage. We did this while baby was napping.

All you need is an old sock, water, soap, a bowl, and some sort of bottle top. The original place I saw this had water bottles that they cut up, but I don’t have those plastic water bottles lying around. I did however have water bottle lids from a kids water bottle (I also wonder if a sippy-cup lid would work. If you try it out, let us know how it works for you!).

One recommendation I have is to make sure the sock’s heel is all the way on your lid. The bubble snake came out like a blob when I let the heel be off the lid… but it worked like a charm when it was on.

So, once you get the sock situated all that is left is making your bubble solution. Put dish soap in a bowl (I didn’t measure, I just poured a little in) and add water. Mix up your solution and then take it and your kids outside.

While my toddler loved this, it was definitely over her head on the blowing part. Since she is just barely figuring out how to blow regular bubbles I guess this shouldn’t be too much a surprise. She did however love the bubble snakes and would giggle with glee every time.

As your kids get older you will have to be less involved and be able to let them enjoy themselves, but even after they figure out how to blow the bubbles you may want to be the bubble station if you want it to last more than 5 minutes. My kiddos always end up tipping the bowl.

Hope you enjoy!

Summer at searchforseven.com
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Pan drumming

Dear Reader,

I know, I know. Another classic activity. But I don’t know how you can really go wrong (in your kids’ eyes) by letting them bang on pans… I say that, but all the noise totally made one of my toddlers cry. One more reason I think the poor girl has another ear infection (she doesn’t always get fevers with them, but she does get them a lot). Eventually, she did get in on the fun, so who knows, maybe it just startled her.

As far as prep, well it’s as easy as grabbing some pans (preferably not the ones you’ll need for dinner that night, because I don’t consider toddlers all that sanitary and if you don’t need the pan for dinner it gives you the ability to wash the pan on your terms) and some kitchen spoons and showing them a time or two that it’s okay to bang on the pans. personally, I wasn’t worried about denting my pans because I don’t figure toddlers are really all that strong, and because I figured that either my pans could handle it, or they weren’t really good pans, anyway. And I have to say that even my weak pans are dent free. Not that I don’t think there’s some risk involved (please don’t blame me, do this activity at your own risk), but that I figured the activity would be fun enough without much damage.

the girls all loved it, including big sister! And she was great at showing them what to do.

I’d say the activity was a success as it kept them all entertained long enough to get dinner started (another reason to use pans you won’t need for dinner)! You’d figure the noise would be a nuisance but it didn’t actually bother me that bad. Maybe because I expected it, though. And doing the activity on carpet definitely helped. And, bonus! It cost me nothing.

Even greater, when you let imagination take charge, your older daughter will make a delicious toy soup for you! haha. Who knew you were signing up for dinner and a serenade!

toy soup, compliments of my preschooler.

We won’t mention how creepy it is to “eat soup” with a humanoid figure in it…

Anyway, I hope all is well with you and yours.

Keira at searchforseven.com
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Macaroni Faces

Dear Reader,

I know this activity is an oldie, and let’s be honest, all the pictures you see of it involve happy faces that are much more… shall we say, photogenic? But, my preschooler has a mind of her own. And I love that about her. She was so excited to get to use glue, though. When I set up the noodles and the plate, she was excited; we could have been doing about anything and it would have been a hit.

setting up for making macaroni faces

Naturally, knowing that I would be taking a picture, I wanted to show off some cute happy face that I can proudly instagram. But I’m not raising an instagram kid. I am raising a real kid. One who will understand that all emotions are good and serve a purpose. So when she chose a sad face, and I quote, “because she likes sad faces,” I didn’t try to change her mind. Its her plate. So, it’s not your typical, “look at what my kid did!” post. But we had fun.

She made hair, eyebrows, eyes, a nose, and a mouth. I put the glue on for her. Eventually, I’ll trust her to do it herself, but not yet. It went way faster than I expected. I asked her if she wanted to add more hair or if she wanted to make another, and my little busy girly was ready to move on, so we saved the rest of the noodles for another activity and moved on. I’m sure it’ll be a good boredom buster, but it was so fast, that I feel like it didn’t entertain her for very long. Maybe it seems to take so long because it’s usually an activity done with more than 1 kid? If we do it again, maybe I can convince her to do a happy face, eh?

Keira at searchforseven.com
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Dump Truck Alphabet

Dear Reader,

Today I really wanted to focus on letter recognition with my preschoolers. They know their numbers really well (both can count at least to 20). This activity would have been perfect for that, had my toddler not interfered.

My preschoolers loved it, what we were able to do. They were able to take turns and grab a letter. Then the toddler, who is working on turns, just kept bringing random letters thinking it was her turn. Soon it turned into utter chaos.

I would say the idea was definitely better then the execution on my part. I think it would have been a lot better, and they would have had more fun with it, had I been able to distract the toddler.

The idea for Dump Truck Alphabet is to have letters spread out on the floor, give the preschooler a letter they had to get, have the preschooler drive the dump truck to the letter and bring it back.

I happened to have some fabric letters that my sister made me for the kids, but if you don’t have something like that you could always use letters that you make out of paper or something to that effect. Also if you don’t happen to have a dump truck you could use a basket or something to that effect, maybe an Easter basket. If none of those options work then you could just have them grab the letter and bring it to you in their hands.

Whatever you decide to use, I know you and your kids will have fun.

Summer at searchforseven.com
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Sponge Targets

Dear Reader,

Today was overcast and not too hot yet, so the perfect day for sponge target. It was already hot and humid at 9:00 so if you are looking for a good activity to get your kids to go out and play in the sun, but still stay cool, this is a good option.

This activity was great for both the older toddler and the preschoolers. That being said I focused mostly on my toddler for this one.

My toddler loved playing with sponges, and what is even better is that it is an activity that I didn’t have to monitor too closely. It kept them busy for a good 20 minutes and they would have been longer had I been willing to add more water to the bucket.

Another plus was that it took minimal setup (busy mom can’t afford to spend all day planning activities). All you need is a bucket (or something to hold the water), sponges, and some way to mark targets. I chose to use sidewalk chalk because it would be easy cleanup for me, (just the bucket and sponges to clean up) but you could use whatever your heart desires. My only caution is to make sure it is easy to clean up after yourself (Painting a target with paint that won’t wash off probably isn’t a good idea)

The steps are pretty simple:

  1. Draw a target on the ground or wall.
  2. Put out a container filled with water and sponges.
  3. Demonstrate what is expected.
  4. Sit back and enjoy.
Summer at searchforseven.com
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Toddler In and Out game

Dear reader,

I don’t know about you, but we’ve had one heck of a week with our brand new toddlers! Between growth spurts and *more* ear infections, we’ve had some crabby babies on our hands. Luckily, babies love a good “game.” Mommy interactions, playing with toys we don’t always play with, and simple skills challenges all put babies in better moods. Or at least distract them from the pain and frustration.

It’s pretty easy, actually. Put a bunch of toys in a container and practice putting the toys in and pulling them out! Babies and young toddlers are fascinated with the concept of where a toy goes when it “disappears” out of their sight, and are excitedly learning the concept of object permanence, so there’s not much prep involved to keep a toddler entertained. First, let them empty the container. Then fill it! Then, maybe a little of both! The think that I love about toddlers is that as long as you’re playing with them, there’s no way to lose!

But honestly, to be real, it’s just nice to have something easy to do to keep toddlers entertained and busy for a few minutes. Next to looking after the terrorizing of everything else in the house, picking up the balls after they’ve lost interest in the “game” is easy. I was worried as to whether I lost my sanity when I bought 1000 ball pit balls from Amazon. But so far (and by only bringing out a few at a time), they’ve been a fun distraction. By all means, though, I realize that most of the world doesn’t have ball pit balls at their disposal, nor am I advocating going out and buying 1000 of them, though if you do, I won’t think you’re crazy. Please, just know, this activity works with any toys and any container. And please, lemme know if you try it!

Keira at searchforseven.com
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Paperclip Jewelry

Summer has sure seemed to go both too fast and too slow. I confess that for me, even with Covid, it has gone too fast. I love summertime, and I love spending time with my family; working and playing together. Which is why we (my sister and I) decided that we wanted to become a little more on-purpose with our kids. We decided to start doing the activities – breaking them into activities for toddlers and activities for preschool – and to keep us a little more committed, to share them here, on my blog.

The first activity I did with my preschooler was to make paperclip jewelry. It was actually kind of fun, and I could see so many ways that it was a great learning activity. We worked on pattern skills, the pincer grasp, colors, and math, all in one activity. And it cost me nothing but time to sit down and build them with her. I had colored paperclips, which I highly recommend for this activity, but it would still be fun with the basic metal ones. With colored ones, though, you can work on colors and patterns. My daughter’s favorite colors right now are pink and green, so it should come as no surprise that when picking out colors, she went with those choices. I liked that she chose 2 because that gave us a great opportunity to work on simple patterns. She knows what patterns are but hasn’t really worked with them that often, and I feel like knowing the concept of something and actually using it are 2 different things, so it was good to put her pattern skills to use.

paperclip jewelry pattern skills

after I pulled out all the pink and green clips from my stash, we put them in order together. I’m sure we could have played with patterns longer, but she was happy with a simple AB order, and honestly it worked for me, so we went with it. then came assembly time!

It took her a little while to get the hang of connecting the paperclips, she kept sliding the whole clips through each other instead of slipping an end through a loop, but she figured it out, and it wasn’t that much trouble to help her. I had her count how many went round her wrist and it took 6 paperclips to go around her wrist. I don’t think she really cared, but it seemed like a good time to slip a little subtle math and measuring concepts in.

All in all, it was super easy, and we had lots of fun. she wore her bracelet all day while we were out running errands, and when we got home she wanted to take it apart so we could do it again another time. I think that it is definitely something we will do over and over again, because it’s not really hard to pull out the little plastic container of paperclips and put a few together.